"I can't say enough good things about Lori. When I first started working with her, I felt overwhelmed, scattered, and stuck in a cycle of frustration. From our very first session, she made me truly understood- like she got me in a way that others hadn't before.

Lori has an incredible way of making things feel manageable. She helped me break down the chaos in my head into simple, doable steps, and she never made me feel judged or like I had to "fix" myself. Instead, she helped me see my ADHD in a new light, focusing on my strengths and giving me tools that worked for me. 

What I love most is how patient, encouraging and real she is. She celebrates little wins with you and reminds you that progress isn't about perfection. Thanks to her, I feel more confident, more in control and way less overwhelmed. 

​- Freshman, Rochester, New York
"I feel strongly that Lori's coaching has changed my student's college trajectory. In the 8 years since receiving an ADHD diagnosis, we have consulted with several doctors, therapists, and coaches. Only Lori has given my student the perspective, tools, support, and confidence she needs to understand her beautiful ADHD brain and achieve to her potential. Lori is not only the most knowledgeable, effective, and professional coach we've ever worked with, she also genuinely cares and is concerned about her students.

Students Stress Less Coaching is one of the best educational investments we've ever made.

​- Mother, Ohio
"I was struggling so badly with my executive function skills in college, that I began questioning if I was cut out for a 4-year degree. My mom found Students Stress Less and I will be forever grateful. Working with Lori was a true partnership, and it restored my self-confidence. Now, I'm about to graduate with a double major, and I would not be here without Lori's coaching. Thank you so much!"

​- College Senior, Fredericksburg, Virginia 
"I got off to a bad start my freshman year because I didn't know how to navigate school with my ADHD. I have been working with Lori ever since my Freshman spring semester, and have done a 180. Before, I was nervous, easily distracted, and constantly debated dropping out. Now, I am about to graduate, and can confidently say that my anxiety and ADHD and more manageable than ever before. I definitely recommend working with SSLC!"

​- College Senior, ​Columbia, South Carolina
"I was struggling to support my daughter who was recently diagnosed with ADHD at 20. Not long after, we found Lori. She was not only able to help us understand D's diagnosis better, but she also gave her completely custom study skills to keep her focused. We are so grateful!"

​- Father, ​Rochester, New York
"As a parent, I'm so glad we came across Lori's coaching services. Tailored and evidence-based with genuine engagement with both parent and student. My student doesn't even need a reminder to attend the sessions! He says, "Lori is the first "tutor" who gets me. She is relatable and helpful! My confidence and grades have improved since working with her!" We both highly recommend."

​- Mother, Tidewater, Virginia​​
"My friend told me about Students Stress Less. My son was terrified to return to college after a disastrous first year of Covid. His anxiety was through the roof. Lori helped him learn to self-soothe during high anxiety, believe in his abilities, and feel more confident."

​- Father, ​Buffalo, New York
"When C's semester started heading south, and you came on board, we saw a change in her ambition that we have never seen before. We want to thank you for all you did to help him find calmness while at school."

​- Mother, ​Charleston, South Carolina
"Lori has given peace of mind to me and my college student from day one of speaking with her. Her helpful suggestions for structuring study time and methods of chunking content made a difference within two weeks. Lower anxiety and higher test scores are a win!"

​- Mother, Williamsburg, Virginia
"It was nearly impossible to get our son an appointment with his university's academic success coaches, so we began looking for other options. A friend referred us to SSLC, and now our son gets weekly 1:1 coaching that is completely tailored to his unique set of circumstances. Lori has helped him understand and cope with his ADHD and anxiety. We are so relieved to have found her."

- Mother, Arlington, Virginia 
"I just wanted you to know how thankful we are to have found you. K's confidence since coaching has increased to a level where she feels capable of tackling hard things."

- Mother, Wichita, Kansas
"Lori's coaching is making all of the difference to our son. Her organizational study methods, and her weekly support without judgement, have kept him motivated and focused. This is money well-spent and an investment in your child that is worth every penny."

- Mother, Boulder, Colorado
"I highly recommend Lori with Students Stress Less! Speaking as both a parent and a 30-year teaching veteran, she is fantastic!"

- Mother, Wichita, Kansas
"I am so glad I found Lori at the right time. You have helped me beyond measure. Thanks to the skills you've taught me, I feel way more prepared to navigate the stress of attending college."

​- College Sophomore, ​Boston, Massachusetts
"I really wanted to overcome some stress and anxiety that onset during my senior year of high school. Working with Lori my summer before college made my transition SO much smoother. I used the Get College Ready summer prep course, which helped me transition to my freshman year with time management and exam prep skills that most of my peers didn't. I felt so ahead! Thank you, Lori."

- College Freshman, Mooresville, North Carolina
"Coaching really helps me focus on actions that I can do every day to help me work through anxiety. This is so helpful and attainable."

​- College Freshman, ​Blacksburg, Virginia 
"Between being a college athlete and having ADHD, college has not been easy for me. Luckily, I heard about SSLC through a teammate who had also worked with Lori. I just completed my first semester with her, and can confidently say she's helped me thrive on the court and in the classroom. I can't wait to renew for next semester too!"

- College Junior, Berkeley, California
"Lori helped me overcome my issues with studying and it reduced my anxiety tremendously."

- College Junior, Lexington, Kentucky
"My son struggled in high school, so my wife and I were a bit nervous the summer before his freshman year. Luckily, we found Lori and invested in the Get College Ready course, which really helped our son feel better equipped to manage his ADHD and anxiety before even starting classes. We really recommend investing in this course for your college-bound student!" 

​- Father, Harrisonburg, Virginia
"My 24-year-old grandson came to live with me this summer. It soon became obvious that, because of his AHDH, he needed more help than I could give him knowing how to plan for his future. We connected with Lori, and even though my grandson was not sure about talking to her, he agreed. After their first time talking, he was excited and he actually took notes. Lori confirmed how he felt about things and gave him ideas of how to cope with his problems of focusing and anxiety. Throughout the time he spent talking to her, I saw him try things like contacting people about jobs and following through. His overall mood seemed to be more positive too. He always looked forward to talking to Lori. I highly recommend Students Stress Less Coaching!"

- Grandmother, Dallas, Texas
"Lori's smile, energy, confidence and positivity helped to create a connection with my son. From the initial meeting, he had buy-in. Her special sauce is her deep toolbox. For any given Executive Function-related obstacle, she has many solutions. If my son wasn't "feeling" a strategy suggestion, he felt comfortable saying so, but she had maybe 5 more in her back pocket. Because he trusted Lori, and genuinely liked working with her, he was willing to try out and later implement those strategies. And, they were helpful. By the end of the semester, he had made Dean's List."

​- Father, Chesapeake, Virginia 
"Lori's approach to stress coaching and overall demeanor have truly helped me learn some new things about myself and how to correct them. Her 1:1 socratic-style meetings allow for healthy, engaging conversation to develop. I would definitely recommend her to any college student who feels they are struggling with stress management.

- PhD Student, Orange County, California
"Lori is an exceptional coach. I've struggled with ADHD and depression for years, and her practical tools and effective strategies have been incredibly helpful in rewiring my thinking patterns. Her guidance has made a significant impact, and I highly recommend her to anyone seeking support for their mental health."

​- Recent Graduate, Austin, Texas
"Lori is the best! She really helped me manage and navigate my semester. She also gave me useful studying tips that work with my ADHD. It helped me understand how my brain works. I am super grateful for this program, and all the coaching Lori has done for me."

- College Junior, Blacksburg, Virginia
"Lori is an amazing coach who really cares! She has helped our daughter so much this semester. I could relax knowing that Lori was coaching her to learn how to work with her ADHD and succeed. Lori is very experienced and we have learned so much. Highly recommend!"

​- Mother, Atlanta, Georgia
"Lori has been a true blessing for my son in his first year of college. The transition from high school to college was not an easy one and her program has really helped him understand his challenges and workshop how to address them. She has helped him turn his grades around and more importantly, taught him how to organize his time and prioritize."

- Father, Loudon County, Virginia
"Lori is brilliant at connecting with young adults and providing them with actionable steps to handle the stress and anxiety that can come with the newness of college! If your child breezed through high school, they may still need to learn to study, manage their time, or to organize their schedules once they start college. I'm so grateful for the strategies she's shared with kids. I refer families to her all of the time!"

​- Mother & Academic Coach, Wichita, Kansas
"Lori Bender is a resource that EVERY parent should have for their Senior heading to college. The relationship that's built senior year carries onto college at a time when tools, stability, and insight are needed the most. This isn't just a random online coach. Lori is a mom and truly cares about each one of her student's mental, academic and social well-being as they're on their college journey. She provides an outlook and sounding board that is often needed at a time when your student is seeking independence from you, the parent. I cannot say enough about Lori and Students Stress Less Coaching. I came across a post on Facebook about her in 2021. Geographically we are states apart but the foundation of values is the same. Thank you Lori! I am truly grateful that my student has you in their corner!"

​- Father, Harrisonburg, Virginia
"Lori was recommended many times on the Virginia Tech Parents Facebook page. My sophomore daughter has ADD and has benefited greatly from her sessions with Lori. She now has better time management and study skills tailored to HER specific needs and learning style."

​- Mother, Blacksburg, Virginia
"We are so pleased with the progress our daughter has made managing her ADHD. We look forward to working with Lori more in the future."

- Mother, Upstate New York

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